What is in the file
A three-page PDF of copy-paste wording, organised by the situation you need it for rather than by stationery type.
| Section | What it covers |
|---|---|
| Invitations | Formal with parents hosting, modern with the couple hosting, relaxed, and evening-only |
| Save the dates | Short-form and with-details versions |
| RSVP cards | With and without meal choice, and with an online reply option |
| Adults-only requests | Several tones, from warm to brief |
| Cash gift wording | Honeymoon fund, house fund, and the general "no gifts needed" version |
| Dress code lines | One-line versions for the invitation and expanded versions for the details card |
| Thank you notes | For gifts, for cash, for travelling, and for guests who could not attend |
Change three things in every example
Names, the date and one detail that only applies to you. That third one is what stops a template reading like a template — a reference to the venue, the journey someone made, or the specific gift they gave.
Keep the set consistent
Invitations, RSVP cards and details cards should sound like the same people wrote them. Pick a register — formal, modern or relaxed — and use that column throughout rather than choosing each piece on its own merits. A formal invitation with a chatty RSVP card reads as two weddings.
One structural rule: the invitation carries the six facts — who is hosting, who is marrying, when, where, what follows and how to reply. Policy, travel and dress code go on a details card. Invitations that explain policy get long and start reading as instructions.
Browse the examples on the site
Every section of the pack has a page with more examples.
Common questions
What is in the wedding wording pack?
A three-page PDF covering invitations in four registers, save the dates, RSVP cards, adults-only requests, cash gift wording, dress code lines and thank you notes.
How do you make template wedding wording sound personal?
Change three things in every example: the names, the date, and one detail that only applies to you — the venue, the journey someone made, or the specific gift. The third is what stops it reading as a template.
Should the invitation include the dress code and travel details?
No. The invitation carries six facts: who is hosting, who is marrying, when, where, what follows and how to reply. Dress code, travel and policy belong on a details card.